How Have You Been Lately, Molly?
The question seems simple enough, yet it carries layers of meaning depending on the context. I found myself asking this recently to an old friend over coffee, and as she paused before answering, I realized how much weight such a seemingly casual inquiry could hold.
Molly has always been someone who wears her heart on her sleeve but also knows when to keep quiet. Her response wasn’t immediate; instead, there was a moment of reflection—a pause that felt intentional rather than awkward. She looked out the window for a second, then turned back with a smile that didn’t quite reach her eyes.
“I’ve been okay,” she said softly. “It’s been… busy.”
Her tone told me more than words ever could. The past few months had taken their toll on both of us, though our struggles were different. For Molly, it seemed like life had thrown curveballs one after another—work deadlines piling up, personal commitments demanding attention, and something intangible lingering just beneath the surface. It wasn’t despair exactly, but there was a palpable sense of unease, a feeling of being stretched too thin.
I nodded, understanding without needing further explanation. Sometimes, people don’t want to unload all at once. They need time to process their own thoughts first. And so, we sat there in companionable silence, sipping our drinks and letting the rhythm of the café fill the gaps between us.
Later that evening, I thought about what it means to ask someone how they’re doing. On the surface, it’s a polite gesture, a way to show concern or maintain connection. But dig deeper, and it becomes clear that the answer often reveals far more than intended. People rarely say “fine” unless they truly mean it—they use it as shorthand for something else entirely.
For Molly, “okay” might have meant “holding steady despite everything.” Or perhaps it signified a temporary truce with chaos. Either way, it was honest, which is rare these days. We live in a world where perfection is celebrated, and vulnerability feels almost taboo.
As I reflected on our conversation, I made a mental note to check in more frequently—not just with Molly, but with everyone around me. Not because I wanted to pry or solve problems, but simply because sometimes, just listening is enough. Sometimes, saying “how have you been lately, molly?” isn’t about finding answers—it’s about creating space for them.
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